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Post by Darth Wong » Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:21 pm

Hey guys (and girls), i understand some guy whom, well, why don’t we just say he’s got perhaps maybe perhaps not done well he can’t find a girl for himself in life, and. The issue is that in the desperation, he connected with somebody when you look at the Philippines on the internet. Now listed here is the crazy component: he claims he has got currently decided to marry her (after just once you understand her for some days and not having also met her once) and intends to get here in March to enter wedlock. I would personally believe that «reckless» is definitely an understatement right right here.

Anyhow, first thing that came in your thoughts had been that she desired to utilize him to obtain citizenship right here. But are here even greater problems him about that I should be warning? Do any of you understand of any frauds concerning this, like individuals kidnapping the unwary groom that is would-be he turns up to marry this girl he is never ever met? I have been aware of that in certain situations utilizing the Nigerian money-laundering scam.

I guess an optimist would argue that maybe this whole thing is legit, but We’m an excessive amount of a cynic to get that. I do believe this person is likely to get scammed or even even worse. If any one of you realize of every horror tales involving this kind of thing, inform me and possibly I’m able to frighten him together with them.

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:20 am

Well, I do not have tales, but I would personally be REALLY carful about this (as you are already). Your buddy has absolutely absolutely absolutely nothing limiting him from going, but i might decide to decide to try EVERYTHING feasible to have him to consider it over.

I will be 99% certain this case will likely not come out in his benefit, just exactly how numerous girls really desire to simply satisfy a guy on the internet and marry him?. Most likley, she’s going to dump him the moment she becomes clear and american that is free or something like that else is tucked up her sleeve.

Post by smithy_dll » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:42 am

We thought Darth Wong ended up being canadian,

Well I would personally need to trust taking the care and presuming it really is a fraud. No proof is had by him she actually exists, wether she actually is actually a lady, had been constantly a female, and really really loves him.

Whats additionally wear could be the wedding is finished here, rather than in a safe democratic spot which would not tollerate any type of mal-bahaviour.

He could be using risks that are several,

Post by erk » Tue Jan 11, 2005 8:56 am

Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:00 am

Well, i’m maybe not too against internet dating, nonetheless, he should at LEAST arrive at know her far better. Exchange photos, talk in the phone, or make use of a cam (at the very least to be sure its a girl your to! That is talking).

But actually, internet relationship can be carried out, but we dont think you need to get hitched after just once you understand them for a couple months.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:01 am

Post by Anon » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:11 am

Personally genuinely believe that Web Dating only works if you should be when you look at the city that is same possibly state/region, maybe not various nations. Like happens to be sa natural girl whom truly really wants to proceed through along with it. What amazes and scares me personally during the exact same time is the fact that he’s had pretty much a similar thing occur to him.

Brief variation: never also think of going here to marry her/him.

Post by Fubonis » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:36 am

Fool me personally when, pity on, pity for you. Fool me twice–can’t get tricked once more.

If he has got perhaps not discovered through the very first experience, he never ever will. Perhaps you should make use of him before some foreigner can.

Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 6:58 am

Truth be told, after conversing with him, he appears to think that the mistake he created using the past woman ended up being in maybe perhaps maybe not marrying her, so she felt no genuine dedication to him. Whatever you may do is move your eyes.

Post by programhouze » Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:01 pm

In any event you appear at it, the man is or should be «hard up» or something like that. I think the «Mail-order bride» deal is B.S. And an overall total waste of individual and psychological time.

Such as the other individual stated, online dating sites ought to be completed with your own personal basic area. There is certainly review instances when individuals have met from throughout the world and married. But, less than those partners which have met within their very own areas.